
From Tom Laidlaw, former hockey player for New York Rangers and Los Angeles Kings, and Survivor contestant
I’ve skated on NHL ice for the NY Rangers and LA Kings. I’ve survived tribal councils on Survivor. The hardest game I’ve ever played? Learning to genuinely take care of myself because it is the game that never ends. But the great news is, you are built to win it.
Get in the Game
The best NHL organizations don’t wait for players to fall apart—they’re proactive, screening and adjusting because a small problem ignored becomes a season-ending problem fast. Your annual physical works the same way; it is your insight into your health. That forty-minute appointment is your competitive edge against heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and certain cancers which can be beaten when caught early. Strong men don’t skip the prep work, they show up ready.
The Honest Locker Room
It can be hard to ask for help and many of us are too proud to say I need help. Yet, stress, anxiety and exhaustion carried in silence don’t make you stronger, they quietly drain everything you have. Reaching out to a counselor, doctor or trusted friend isn’t a white flag. It’s the smartest move on the board. You are not alone in this.
For more, including sleep is your recovery session, build your lineup
Sleep Is Your Recovery Session
Ask any Survivor contestant what breaks people down fastest on the island, it’s not hunger, it’s sleep deprivation. When you go for days without real rest, your decision-making crumbles, your emotions spike and your body begin to work against you. It took me awhile to realize that sleep is the foundation for everything. I challenge myself now to prioritize at least seven hours of sleep per night and keeping a consistent schedule. The result? More energy, sharper focus, better mood and a stronger immune system. This is a free performance upgrade that’s available to you every single night. Take it.
Build Your Lineup
No Stanley Cup gets won by one player. No Survivor torch gets held by someone who went it completely alone. The social game that includes trust, communication and genuine connection is what determines who’s still standing when it counts. Your real life is no different, strong friendships and relationships reduce stress, build resilience and make the hard stuff manageable. Don’t let those connections drift. Invest in them because when the pressure is on, those relationships are exactly what carry you through.
Now It’s Your Turn: The Men’s Health 21-Day Challenge
The best competitors don’t just talk about getting better, they commit to it. So, here’s your call to action. For the next 21 days, participate in the Men’s Health Challenge, filled with powerful actions to support every dimension of your health. Twenty-one days to a stronger version of you. The whistle has blown. The game is on. Are you in?
